Posts attached with hashtag: #horizontality
horizontal with the Great Wizard Devin Person. Greenpoint, Brooklyn May 2019 Devin: The bad experiences that I’ve had, have always been when someone assumes that the way that they like things is universal, and expects you to know that immediately. Whereas I’m like, “Oh, I’m gonna touch you gently at first, and if, I keep getting signals, then I’ll move up and get harder, and then I’m like, Oh, you want me to literally like, grind my knuckles into your clit, okay, like, I get the signal! I’m not gonna start with that! And, the most baffling ual experiences I’ve had have always been ones where, someone is like, mad that I’m not doing something— or that I’m doing something, that I’m like, Yeah, this is the first time we’re having , like, I’m moving slow, and experimenting. Some people really like to have their neck kissed; some people do not. I can ask you that, but, you’re not gonna give me a questionnaire at the beginning; I’m gonna figure this out, somewhat organically. Lila: You’re like playing a video ge and trying to see where things light up! Devin: Or I’m like, I got through this level, and I got, eaten by that monster, and I know that I need to avoid that monster next time and then, I’ll do it! Because, you know, you might date one person who’s like, Oh my God, if you’re gonna go down on me, you need to stick a finger in my . The next person that you go down on— Lila: Is like, “No.” Devin: Is not like— I’m like, This worked last time! Lila: I’ve really often experienced that after— when I’ve had with someone who has been recently out of a long-term relationship, I get the sense that they are fucking, just, the way that (overlapping) that person, fucked. Devin: (overlapping) That they were taught. Lila: And: I new person! But they are on progrming! And, and thinking that they’re gonna get the se reaction, and, that rarely happens, because people are alchemical together, and it’s something different, when you put that equation together, when you put those chemical substances together. Devin: Totally! And it’s the joy of finding that together! Listen to episode 85. well-hung psychedelic s&x wizard / no hookups!
About to get horizontal in a Wizard Bed, wearing my friend's kimono. Greenpoint, Brooklyn May 2019 Season 3 mostly consists of . Whereas in Seasons 1 and 2, I was lying down with a single guest at time, many of my Season 3 episodes will have me lying down with two people at a time — in this case, Between Two Wizards. The humans featured in (most of) Season 3 are in some kind of relationship with one another. Thus far, I’ve had a manager and his/her trauma specialist client ( @boygodking & @jimanekia ), co-hosts of a sexuality conversation series called the Discerning Dick ( @dominickq & @bryanstace ), primary poly romantic partners ( @glittersaurus.rex & @orionstarbreeze ), and now, Wizard friends and esoteric collaborators. In episode 85. well-hung psychedelic s&x wizard / no hookups, we talk about the origin of the White Collar Wizard emails, middle-school boys and cock-shaming, Devin’s first acid trip in 8th grade, the grand Bohemia of Olympia, Washington, learning that you aren’t “supposed to” come too fast if you have a penis, sleep-s&xing, the question, “What is your other s&x like?”, Devin’s Wizard Tinder profile, 80s Penthouse, imprinting on your first , Kevin’s therapist, Ethical Porn for Dicks, shame-y, judgemental s&x, and how some should just remain . In the next episode, 86, the second half of our conversation, Devin and Kevin actually read us some of their private Wizard emails, we discuss what it means to be a present-day Tarot Dealer and a modern Wizard, and Devin tells us the truly incredible — as in, if you saw it in a movie you’d say, “That never happens in real life!” — and the incredibly true tale of how his hair turned Wizard White. To listen to that episode, and for access to The Full Horizontal, become a patron of the horizontal arts through the link in my bio! $7/month includes all the part twos & $10 includes the part twos, the secret patrons group, + a monthly video with intimacy tips and a love poem! Patreon is the love child of crowd-funding and a subscription service. Find me there! And come lie down with us, for episodes 85 & 86: between two wizardsx
horizontal between two Wizards. Greenpoint, Brooklyn May 2019 In this episode, I lie down with Devin & Kevin. I’ve known about @personisawake for years. My former housemate Tiger, who you heard from in Season 1, used to say, “My Wizard friend,” quite regularly in casual conversation. But it wasn’t until @lolajeandotcom 's Kinky Carnival when we became properly acquainted and made a podcast pact. He fulfilled his part of the pact months ago! My episode of his series "This Podcast is a Ritual" is called “How To Take Life Lying Down,” and in it, we talked at a moderate incline, about the origin of my horizontal curiosity, couples therapy, reflective listening, and my working definition of intimacy. Then I made a call for closing rituals, to end romantic relationships. I also cast you a Spell. Devin is something like your most compassionate therapist, if your therapist were a young handsome Dumbledore proficient in computers who studied improv at Second City for 7 years. If you listen to his podcast, or participate in any of his events, like the Wizarding Hour ( a collaboration with @kevinpelrine ) or the Wizard Walkabout, in which 50 of us took ceremonial gummy bears and went gallivanting about Central Park on 4/20 — you’ll know that Devin has a thing for numbers. Not for nothin’, I also took part in a Sex Magick ritual for his podcast, on 6/9, from 6 to 9pm, with between 6 and 9 people. Kevin is a musician, a Senior UX Designer, and one of Devin’s dear friends. Their friendship has mostly taken place in the ether, in the form of Wizard emails, the record of which form a virtual diary, a correspondence that marks the living of our lives. Kevin was formerly the proprietor of Tarot Society, which was a center for the curious to gather in Bushwick and muse about things hidden and obscure. Devin & Kevin used to host a summer series there called New Age & Chill... In this episode, the first half of our conversation, we talk about the origin of the White Collar Wizard emails, middle-school boys and cock-shaming... [Cont'd in the blog post for episode 85 and in the next two posts]
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